Women Gain Faith In Themselves

by Stephen Reily, Dec 7, 2009, 10:11 AM

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A recent survey of smart, successful women aged 50 and over that we gather at VibrantNation.com reveals two notable facts: the recession has crushed their confidence in financial and religious institutions, but not in themselves.

Nearly 8 out of 10 respondents report that "the older I get, the more resilient I become." Boomer women are gaining confidence in their own ability to manage their lives while losing confidence in the same institutions that exist to support them, whether financial or spiritually.

Financial Advice and Services

Women are not optimistic about the financial future. Over 62% of our survey respondents said they are "increasingly worried" that they will not receive the same level of Social Security and Medicare benefits that their parents did.

Even more remarkably, Vibrant Women are even less willing to trust the financial institutions that could help them prepare a more secure financial future.

A remarkable 67% of respondents said they do not trust their financial advisors. One-third reported that they trust their financial advisors and institutions less than before the Recession; another one-third report never having trusted them to begin with.

Banks and financial advisory firms have too much at stake to continue getting this essential demographic so wrong. But they can't solve their problems without recognizing the doubts and concerns -- and strengths -- of Boomer women in new ways.

Spirituality

Religious Institutions

On a spiritual level, Boomer women want spirituality to support them during hard times and accept that they can't control everything that happens. But they aren't finding the support they need from traditional sources.

Only 23% of Vibrant Women find inspiration from their current religious communities, and only 8% of them find it from the religious communities in which they were raised.

Where are they turning?

44% find inspiration in the beliefs and philosophies learned from books, speakers, coaches, workshops or other sources outside of organized religion. 50% of respondents turn to personal prayer and meditation to keep their spirits up.

We have long recognized that spirituality is a guiding light for Boomer women, but the recession seems to have proved it.

The Gospel of Success and Pop Psychology

The "Vibrant Woman" is not passive, but she has relinquished the idea that her own beliefs can control her future. Almost two-thirds of our respondents believe that, while they can influence what happens to them, the ultimate outcome lies beyond their control. Only 26% believe they create their reality and that if they think positively, they will get what they're asking for.

As one respondent said, "I don't think thinking positively automatically gets me what I want, rather I believe we must be open to different ideas, collaborative projects, and hope."

Our members referred more to authors like Eckhart Tolle and causes like Al-Anon (both based on the idea that accepting our powerlessness is a part of human development) than sources like "The Secret" or the "Laws of Attraction" that suggest success is available to anyone who wants it enough.

What does this mean for marketers?

The implications for marketers are enormous, but here are a few early thoughts:

• Tell Boomer women you trust them to choose their best solutions.

• Acknowledge that institutions are unlikely to meet their needs.

• Don't pretend that she can make things happen if only she wanted them enough.

• Confirm her sense that she grows stronger no matter what happens.

If you acknowledge these women's resilience and their ability to grow through setbacks, you are likely to remain their friend through thick and thin.

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0 comments on "Women Gain Faith In Themselves ".

1. Barb Geldersma
   

   commented on: December 7, 2009 at 1:56 p.m.

   Boomer women have to be resilient! We know that our strength comes from within and our ability to make things better for women every where. We're the feminist movement gals who pushed for equality in jobs, sports, relationships... and made great strides. At 60 I was let go by the company I worked for, didn't fret and worry about someone else creating my future security. I founded my own company and found even more inner strength and faith in my abilities. Never, never doubt the strength of my generation.

2. Rhonda Campbell from NA
   

   commented on: December 7, 2009 at 1:58 p.m.

   The tip not to pretend that a woman can make something happen if she only wants it badly enough caught my eye. We are living at a time when that message is toted widely, especially in the positive thinking / positive affirmation industries. I think it's important to keep in mind that "desire" alone is often not enough to cause a thing to occur. This fact alone can keep marketers from appearing dishonest or like they are people who believe in magic in the market place.

   Rhonda Campbell
   http://www.chistell.com

3. Carol Wilcox
   

   commented on: December 7, 2009 at 4:46 p.m.

   I decided a long time ago that corporate America was not going to take care of me and that all the financial advice in the world would not necessarily guarantee a comfortable retirement. That's why I decided to take my destiny into my own hands and form my own company. I have never worked as hard as I do now but I'm in control and know that my hard work will pay off.

   I am finding more and more Boomer women (and men!) are taking matters and risk into their own hands and starting small businesses. It's the best shot at attaining the quality of life we want in our "later years"...whatever that means...I never plan to retire!

4. Paula Lynn from Who Else Unlimited
   

   commented on: December 7, 2009 at 5:23 p.m.

   Again, the images portrayed in promotions for women are so off target. From the preventing wrinkles by showing a woman in her 30's as what a product can do for you (one of my favorites is showing how a product can reduce cellulite on an 18 year old 110 lbs/5'10" girl) to how great all of the kids and grandkids are a farce. "One pill makes you smaller and one pill makes you tall. Go ask Alice....."

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