Last fall, as usual, a mouse moved into my house when the weather got cold. Also, as usual, I began my quest to remove it. But this year, planning its demise, I suddenly felt sorry for the mouse. I
realized, with a small twinge of guilt, that I was doing to the mouse what Internet marketers do to everybody.
Nonetheless, I went to work to find the right bait. Peanut butter
makes good bait for mice. Link bait is the preferred solution for humans. I wondered if signage would appeal to the mouse: “5 ways to chew through a bag of dog food,” or,“Minnie
Mouse in torrid sex positions you thought you’d never see!”
Of course, I had to go get a trap. There’s the snap-its-neck version, the poison-it version, and the cruel
mire-it-in-glue version. In online marketing, the trap is a big fat message, or the classic, “did I mention you have to give me your email address?” Or maybe it’s the silent type:
Just set a cookie. Either way, as trap-ee I feel the sucking sound of my brain going down someone’s funnel.
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The problem with the mousetrap-marketing model is that the bait usually makes
it too obvious that a trap is set. To consumers, bait smells like trap. After a while, the bait is a signal to stay away. What’s worse, assuming the message is branded, consumers know who
set the trap. They also know to stay away from certain places where traps abound. The message sent by the deception is likely more memorable than the message the deception was intended to
communicate!
How can we change the game?
Perhaps I could befriend the mouse, and ask it nicely to leave the house. That was once the promise of social media. Perhaps I could
leave a trail of bait that leads to a place outside my house where the mouse might comfortably spend the winter.
What, indeed, is the win-win alternative to the mousetrap model of
marketing?
Whatever it is, it’s friendly, provides honest value, and communicates something about the agenda. After all, if I’m your friend, we will have opportunities to chat in
the future. No point in seeming insecure by dumping the whole story in one corpulent download. No point in lighting up visual fireworks if I am already paying attention. (Maybe attention paid to
boring content is the ultimate test of someone’s interest in the subject matter!).
Simply being nice does not guarantee anything, of course. The mouse might take advantage of our
friendship, eat all the bait, and then move back in. (Ad blocking). But savvy trappers are patient. To them, a miss is just another opportunity to strengthen the story, tell another aspect,
change the bait, or create more value.
Overplay your hand, and the mouse will know you are not its friend. It’s in control. It can hide. Your bait and trap will be worthless if
the mouse becomes skeptical of your peanut butter.
Honest Ted’s Humane Consumer Mousetrap makes the following claim: The bait honestly communicates the consequences of taking it, and the
consequence will be something pleasant that nudges the mouse in the right direction. Tender trap.
I used to work with a company that had a model that suggested you set the bait, and then you
try to build a relationship. It was: Catch, Connect, Close. Pretty good, but still a bit predatory.
After considering my resident mouse, I offer you a gentler version: Bait, Wait, Relate. The
difference is a softer close. That’s the sort of thing a friend would do. And, by the way, don’t make the “relate” into some sort of “Hi, buddy -- you and I, we think
alike.” That’s gag-worthy. Hey, you’re an ad. Own it.