The Private Side Of Social Media

Millennials have come to be known as the over-sharing generation. But after years of broadcasting their lives on Facebook profiles and Twitter feeds under profiles tied to their real names and real lives, Millennials are looking for ways to share their thoughts with fewer consequences. They’re still sharing and looking for outlets to send out their thoughts and voices, but there is a new desire for privacy, secrecy, and anonymity in social media. The Facebookers are becoming the faceless.

Younger Millennials, who tend to be more pragmatic than their older counterparts, are fuelling the trend. Perhaps watching their older brothers and sisters pay the price for unfiltered sharing has made them more wary, or it may be their own experiences with drama and bullying on more public and large social networks that are fuelling their new desire for a more sheltered way of sharing. In our conversations with them, we often hear that a major drawback of Facebook is the judgement that is attached to every action taken there.



Among some teens that we have spoken to, Facebook has gotten somewhat of a bad reputation as a platform where people go to show off and instigate FOMO (fear of missing out) since posts on the network are published to a large audience. After carefully curating their public personas almost their entire lives, these Millennials are looking for a less exhausting form of communication—one that lets them share the pieces of themselves that they don’t want the entire world to see.

We see them being drawn to networks that make them feel less judged and more safe. Messaging apps with smaller circles of friends and more purposeful (often image-based) functions are attracting them in droves, especially over the last year. Snapchat’s messages disappear after a short period of time, and Instagram is seen as more expressive, creative, and ultimately curated, giving it more value and social currency.

We Heart It, which we profiled in our Q&A with CEO Ranah Edelin, has found that their Millennial users are looking for a “more positive and supportive community…[and to be] able to express themselves in an authentic way without fear of backlash or negative feedback from the community.” The lack of comments on the network has fostered the positivity and safety that they are looking for. Without a comment system, all actions on the site—contributing, liking, and following—become inherently positive. The craving for a positive and safe space is a consistent theme in the new, often more single-purpose, apps and networks that young users are being drawn to.

The mobile app Whisper is probably the best example of the rising popularity of privacy and facelessness online. Whisper’s sole purpose is the sharing of secrets. Seventy percent of Whisper’s users are women, and most are between 17 and 28 years old. Users from around the world share their private thoughts through anonymous posts, where their words are layered over a compelling image, and no profile is required to contribute a post. Though there is some hook-up messaging (a fairly unavoidable output of any network involving teens and 20-somethings) the feeds on the app are overwhelmingly about exposing the private, intimate thoughts and problems of users.

Some are looking for support, but many just want a place they can air their problems without consequences. Whisper’s founder says that the app provides a place for users to be “who you are when no one is looking.” Interestingly, the editor-in-chief of Whisper calls it “the anti-Facebook,” a sentiment that is echoed in popular posts on the app that declare things like “I love Whisper because I’m not afraid to be myself,” and “I remain filtered on Facebook while I can be completely candid on Whisper.”

The rise in popularity of these curated apps that do more to shelter their users from judgement and the marring of their “real” personas has been brewing for some time. However, now it is truly emerging as a new preference for Millennials who are looking to incorporate privacy into their online lives—while still sharing everything about them.

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  1. Craig Mcdaniel from Sweepstakes Today LLC, February 14, 2014 at 1:55 p.m.

    Good story. If I may add, those who are seeking privacy, their personal information is already out there. If the Y-Gen gets a bank account, credit card, goes to the hospital and other places such as private utilities where you sign up for services on paper, that information will be sold. No question about it. Even if you name is spelled incorrect this will go to a credit reporting agency. While you story does a good job addressing what an individual can do to control their privacy. This is small in the bigger picture of things. Big brother is alive and well.

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